Surprise Sex - 5 tips For Improving Sex Life

In the beginning of any relationship sex is always on the first place for both man and woman. They can make sex anywhere, it is their favorite occupation and they believe that their sex will always be wild, hot and passionate. But after some time the sex becomes habitual thing for the couple, they do not dream to make it all the time and it is a trivial thing for them. But sex is an important part not only of a relationship, but also of health and it is the best medicine from stress.

Sex becomes primitive when it repeats all the time in the same way without any changing. You have to do something for making your sex hot and passionate again. In this case, you can always turn to surprise sex and here are few advices for you.

1. Change your bed getup

Many things depend on the clothes in what you usually sleep in. If you like to sleep in t-shirt, pajama or underwear, buy sexy lingerie or underwear. Or if you like to wear dressing gown, go to sleep naked. No matter what you decided to go to bed naked or not, lay under the blanket first and when your boyfriend lays near with you, take your hand and put it on your body. He will be pleasantly surprised and excited.

2. Surprise him with a new position

If you have a long-term relationship, you have the same sex positions all the time. But you can change this, you just do not have to be afraid and try something new for surprising him. You can use reverse cowgirl position  (it is the same as cowgirl when you are on top, but you just have to face his legs and not chest). You will like it: he will admire your beautiful body and bends and if you do not like your belly, it will become your favorite position too.

3. Try dirty talking

You do not like to say something during sex? You do not have to be ashamed of it because it is normal thing. Not always dirty talking is hot. But if you want to surprise your man, you can say something light and pleasant, like "That is amazing" or for adding some passion, you can command him “Make me feel closer to the stars”.

4. Switch up your usual sex roles

Does he usually start cuddling? Now it is your time to give him “hints” that you want sex. You can start kissing him very passionately or take your clothes off very sexy and slowly. He will understand you right away. Do not be afraid to do it, spice up your sex life. But if it is you who always starts foreplay, make him do it first. Tell him something about sex or put yourself into his favorite sex position and he will understand your signals right away. Changing up your sex roles will add excitement to your sex life.

5. Play X-rated I never

It is the most favorite game among children where everyone shows their knowledge. But you can make a sexy version of this classic game and be the leader in it. But you can play it only if you know your partner’s sexual experience in the past. But not times of jealousy and shyness. If you are sexually open-mined, you will be immediately aroused and your sex will be as hot and passionate as it was in the beginning of your relationship.

Using Sex Toys during Pregnancy

If you have never used a sex toy in your sexual life, you can try using sex toys during pregnancy and we assure you that you will not regret about it. You will discover a whole lot of new enjoyable and pleasant sensations and feelings.

You will be pleasantly surprised when you decide to buy a sex toy and you will find out a lot of different sex accesories on the market. You do not have to be afraid to use the sex toy during the pregnancy if you do everything right.

You can use sex toys at any stage of pregnancy and the following tips will help you to receive the great pleasure from them. But if you have some doubts about toys or active sexual life, talk to your doctor about it.

First and Second Trimester

You have to remember some tips if you are allowed to have passionate sex and orgasm during pregnancy.

1. Keep Sex Toys Clean

If you do not want to have problems, you have  to take care of your sex toys all the time and keep them clean. You also have to use condom on any toy and change it every time when you share the toys with your partner. But it would be better to clean sex toys with special cleaners which you can buy in sex shops. There are also silicone toys which you can clean in boiling water and there will be no infection.

2. Practice Nipple Play

When you are pregnant your nipples are very perceptive, so do not use clamps because you will not get any pleasure, but only discomfort or even pain. But you can buy vibrating bullets which will not hurt you and can be used anywhere. They will bring you great pleasure.

3. Use Lubricants

You have physical changes when you are pregnant and these changes are vaginal tightening and vaginal dryness, so it would be more pleasant and better for you to use lubricants. Use a simple water-based lubricant if you have allergies on other lubes.

Third Trimester

If you do not have risk of premature birth and your doctor allowed you to have sexual activity on the last stages of your pregnancy, you can still have sex and use sex toys. But in case your doctor did not allow you to have sex or it was your own choice, you can have non-perceptive sex. Here are few advices which will help you to feel the pleasure during third trimester.

1. Mutual Masturbation

If you decided to have mutual masturbation, you can use sex toys for having more pleasure. You can use any toy, but only together with lube.

2. Anal Toys

If you are pregnant, it does not mean that you can not experiment with your sexual life. If you want to experience something new and exciting, you can try anal toys. It can bring you even more pleasure than simple sex. Do not be afraid to experiment and buy anal toys for the beginners.

You may like your sexual life being pregnant even more than earlier. So take a chance, experiment new things, add something exciting and enjoy active sexual life during your pregnancy.

How to Simulate Orgasm

It is not a secret that  most women simulate orgasm very often. There is no woman who never simulated the orgasm. This is a favorite subject for many discussions, articles, films and men’s journals. Every man talks about it, but he does not know that it is very painful theme for women because they do not have the orgasm, when they want to, due to the mistakes men make during sex. And men do not think that women simulate orgasm for them. They simply do not want to offend men, wanting their sweatheart feel like a king in the bed.

If you decided to hit the shaky road of orgasm simulation, you can follow our simple steps to make it look more natural:

1. You have to be relaxed if you want to imitate an orgasm. Relaxation helps you to feel pleasure from sex and maybe you won't need to simulate orgasm.

2. When your partner entered you, begin to move and make characteristic sounds so that he could see that you enjoy sex very much. You can push your hips forward to your partner, showing him that you like sex and help him bring pleasure to both of you.

3. Repeat softly his name and ask him to speed up or slow down the movements of his penis. He has to see that you almost reached orgasm.

4. Make your sounds louder and movements faster and then “reach an orgasm”.

You have to move and make sounds all the time during sex, otherwise your partner will understand that you simulate the orgasm if you start moving in the end. That is why you have to show your boyfriend that you initially enjoy the sex. Plus, push your hips forward when you simulate the orgasm. You may like it and you will not simulate it any more.

5.  Muscle contractions

Muscle contractions are uncontrolled reflexes of our bodies, but you can simulate them by stringing the blanket, curving the back or straining your legs. End the orgasm with a shout, groan or call out his name. Your boyfriend has to see that you are in the seventh heaven.

6. You have to stop moving after this. You have to be quiet and relaxed. Breathe heavily. Your partner has to see that you are extremely tired. Normalize your respiration and give your boyfriend a hot kiss and lovely smile.

How to know the orgasm was real

You do not have to play the role, to cry and moan when you feel the real orgasm. Usually, people do not demonstrate that they had an orgasm, but you can understand this by the following things:

• Hurried respiration

• Loud sounds

• Passionate moves

• Muscle contractions

• Flushed face

• Body’s perspiring

Do not forget about these notes:

 • You have to think very well before simulating the orgasm. If you simulate the orgasm, your partner thinks that your sexual life is great and you do not need to change something in it. Besides, if you have a serious relationship, you will make worse by simulating the orgasm, because you lose the chance to experience the best pleasure in the world and make your  sex fantasies come true.

• Men can also simulate the orgasm, especially if they are wearing condoms.
• If you think that your partner is simulating the orgasm, do not hurry to attack her or him. It just means      that you have to talk about it and to try to make something for reaching the real orgasm.