Sex Toys: How to Avoid Injuries

Sex toys designers try to produce harmless toys, but you still can be harmed if you do not use sex toy in a right manner no matter you use sex toy for the first time or you are an experienced user. Anyone can get injured. That is why here are few advices for you to avoid injuries and continue to enjoy your little friend.
 
Choose quality devices
If you decided to buy a sex toy, you have to be very careful and choose toy of the best quality. You have to know that there are a lot of different sex toys producers and not all of them make quality devices.  Learn out producer’s name and check out whether it is respectable or not. Of course, famous producers always make good toys, but these toys are very expensive. But think about your health and not about your money.
 
Choose the right size
If you do not want to be harmed, you have to choose the right size and structure which fits you. But if you buy sex toy in the internet, read attentively about dimensions. If you can not find information about size and structure, find this toy on the other site, but do not buy a toy when you know nothing about it. Not all huge dildos and vibes fit all women. Especially if you like anal stimulation, you have to buy thin toys.
 
Lubricate your devices
Always remember to lubricate your sex toy. You will not receive a lot of pleasure if you are dry. Besides, you will be harmed because of this. And lubrication is obligatory if you like anal massagers.
 
Risks of allergic reactions
There is also a possibility of allergic reactions if sex toy’s texture does not fit you. Nowadays sex toys are made of safe textures and they are phthalates free, but there can be incompatibility with latex. You have to know about your allergies and what you can use and what not. If you have allergy on latex, you can not use latex condoms then. There are a lot of other textures or eco-textures, like wood, glass,metal and so on.
 
Follow all the instructions very carefully
All sex toys have special instructions where you can read about right usage and care. And do not forget that there are sex toys which you can not use for a long time. For instance, cock ring compresses the penis base and you have to take it off after 15-20 minutes because it can bring harm to your blood vessels and tissues. And if you like to play with your toy in water, always buy waterproof sex toys.
 
Latex is made from natural rubber which is taken from tropical rubber trees. It has good continuance, extension and non-porous nature. That is why a lot of condoms are made from latex. But not many sex toys are made from latex. Latex has special compounds which causes allergy like protein of latex. So, if you have latex allergy, be very careful while buying a sex toy.
 
The allergy symptoms
There are severe and mild symptoms of allergy on latex. Mild symptoms: coughing, itchy and red eyes, sneezing, rash, chest tightness and others. The time of symptoms appearance is about 12-36 hours after contact. Severe symptoms: difficult breathing, wheezing, vomiting, nausea, changes in pulse, loss of consciousness. In this case the allergic individual has to call medical assistance.

9 Tips to become a Bad Girl in Bed

Do not miss a chance to become a very bad girl in bed. Here are few advices for you how to leave the image of good and nice girl and become dirty and hot lover.

Make Hints

Put intriguing words with dual meaning into conversation. Offer him to make a massage of his back and neck. Ask him to help you unravel a hard crossword. Show him few positions from yoga. Tell that weather makes you hot and so on.

Become demanding

Say such words as “Take me”, “I want you”, “Enter me”, “Slower”, “Faster”. Any man will happily make all your demands.

Do not wait

If a bad girl wants sex, she will not wait for the right moment for taking her man. Seduce him when he is talking to his mother or boss, put his pants off and start kissing his penis, then take it into the mouth and give him pleasure using your tongue and hands. Or you can also seduce him right after the shower when he is fresh and relaxed.

Dirty dancer

First of all, bad girls love and enjoy their bodies. They feel themselves sexy and seductive. So, make an erotic show for your partner- leave the light on, put sensual music and start take your clothes off slowly one by one. Don't forget to put erotic lingerie, instead of your everyday panties.

Pantyless

Take your panties off in the bathroom and make everything possible for letting him see that you are without panties. Drop a folk or something else on the floor and ask him to help you to pick it up. When he bends, he has to see that are ready for sex.

Stop hesitating

Bad girls never think “What if…?” They always do what they want to do and take what they want to take. They do not consider sex is a beginning of a relationship. Sex is just a pleasure for them and they get this pleasure.

Push the button

If bad girl wants her man to experience an unforgettable orgasm, she knows where his hidden orgasm switch is. It is situated between the base of his genitals and his anus. This smooth place calls perineum. Massage this spot with strong and powerful moves while you are on top of him.

Be honorless

Do whatever you want and like in sex. The main thing is you getting the pleasure. If you like to use vibrators or sex toys, use them. If you like to play with his penis or be on top of him, do it. Or ask him to make oral sex on you. He will be satisfied seeing that this brings you orgasm.

Accept compliments

When a man tells you a compliment, always accept it. Bad girl will never deny that she has an amazing body or she is queen of sex. She just gives him a big smile or kiss.

If you are tired to be good girl and you want to be bad girl from time to time, and you will see that your sex life will improve considerably, as diversity is very important in keeping your love life happy and regular.

Surprise Sex - 5 tips For Improving Sex Life

In the beginning of any relationship sex is always on the first place for both man and woman. They can make sex anywhere, it is their favorite occupation and they believe that their sex will always be wild, hot and passionate. But after some time the sex becomes habitual thing for the couple, they do not dream to make it all the time and it is a trivial thing for them. But sex is an important part not only of a relationship, but also of health and it is the best medicine from stress.

Sex becomes primitive when it repeats all the time in the same way without any changing. You have to do something for making your sex hot and passionate again. In this case, you can always turn to surprise sex and here are few advices for you.

1. Change your bed getup

Many things depend on the clothes in what you usually sleep in. If you like to sleep in t-shirt, pajama or underwear, buy sexy lingerie or underwear. Or if you like to wear dressing gown, go to sleep naked. No matter what you decided to go to bed naked or not, lay under the blanket first and when your boyfriend lays near with you, take your hand and put it on your body. He will be pleasantly surprised and excited.

2. Surprise him with a new position

If you have a long-term relationship, you have the same sex positions all the time. But you can change this, you just do not have to be afraid and try something new for surprising him. You can use reverse cowgirl position  (it is the same as cowgirl when you are on top, but you just have to face his legs and not chest). You will like it: he will admire your beautiful body and bends and if you do not like your belly, it will become your favorite position too.

3. Try dirty talking

You do not like to say something during sex? You do not have to be ashamed of it because it is normal thing. Not always dirty talking is hot. But if you want to surprise your man, you can say something light and pleasant, like "That is amazing" or for adding some passion, you can command him “Make me feel closer to the stars”.

4. Switch up your usual sex roles

Does he usually start cuddling? Now it is your time to give him “hints” that you want sex. You can start kissing him very passionately or take your clothes off very sexy and slowly. He will understand you right away. Do not be afraid to do it, spice up your sex life. But if it is you who always starts foreplay, make him do it first. Tell him something about sex or put yourself into his favorite sex position and he will understand your signals right away. Changing up your sex roles will add excitement to your sex life.

5. Play X-rated I never

It is the most favorite game among children where everyone shows their knowledge. But you can make a sexy version of this classic game and be the leader in it. But you can play it only if you know your partner’s sexual experience in the past. But not times of jealousy and shyness. If you are sexually open-mined, you will be immediately aroused and your sex will be as hot and passionate as it was in the beginning of your relationship.

Using Sex Toys during Pregnancy

If you have never used a sex toy in your sexual life, you can try using sex toys during pregnancy and we assure you that you will not regret about it. You will discover a whole lot of new enjoyable and pleasant sensations and feelings.

You will be pleasantly surprised when you decide to buy a sex toy and you will find out a lot of different sex accesories on the market. You do not have to be afraid to use the sex toy during the pregnancy if you do everything right.

You can use sex toys at any stage of pregnancy and the following tips will help you to receive the great pleasure from them. But if you have some doubts about toys or active sexual life, talk to your doctor about it.

First and Second Trimester

You have to remember some tips if you are allowed to have passionate sex and orgasm during pregnancy.

1. Keep Sex Toys Clean

If you do not want to have problems, you have  to take care of your sex toys all the time and keep them clean. You also have to use condom on any toy and change it every time when you share the toys with your partner. But it would be better to clean sex toys with special cleaners which you can buy in sex shops. There are also silicone toys which you can clean in boiling water and there will be no infection.

2. Practice Nipple Play

When you are pregnant your nipples are very perceptive, so do not use clamps because you will not get any pleasure, but only discomfort or even pain. But you can buy vibrating bullets which will not hurt you and can be used anywhere. They will bring you great pleasure.

3. Use Lubricants

You have physical changes when you are pregnant and these changes are vaginal tightening and vaginal dryness, so it would be more pleasant and better for you to use lubricants. Use a simple water-based lubricant if you have allergies on other lubes.

Third Trimester

If you do not have risk of premature birth and your doctor allowed you to have sexual activity on the last stages of your pregnancy, you can still have sex and use sex toys. But in case your doctor did not allow you to have sex or it was your own choice, you can have non-perceptive sex. Here are few advices which will help you to feel the pleasure during third trimester.

1. Mutual Masturbation

If you decided to have mutual masturbation, you can use sex toys for having more pleasure. You can use any toy, but only together with lube.

2. Anal Toys

If you are pregnant, it does not mean that you can not experiment with your sexual life. If you want to experience something new and exciting, you can try anal toys. It can bring you even more pleasure than simple sex. Do not be afraid to experiment and buy anal toys for the beginners.

You may like your sexual life being pregnant even more than earlier. So take a chance, experiment new things, add something exciting and enjoy active sexual life during your pregnancy.

How to Simulate Orgasm

It is not a secret that  most women simulate orgasm very often. There is no woman who never simulated the orgasm. This is a favorite subject for many discussions, articles, films and men’s journals. Every man talks about it, but he does not know that it is very painful theme for women because they do not have the orgasm, when they want to, due to the mistakes men make during sex. And men do not think that women simulate orgasm for them. They simply do not want to offend men, wanting their sweatheart feel like a king in the bed.

If you decided to hit the shaky road of orgasm simulation, you can follow our simple steps to make it look more natural:

1. You have to be relaxed if you want to imitate an orgasm. Relaxation helps you to feel pleasure from sex and maybe you won't need to simulate orgasm.

2. When your partner entered you, begin to move and make characteristic sounds so that he could see that you enjoy sex very much. You can push your hips forward to your partner, showing him that you like sex and help him bring pleasure to both of you.

3. Repeat softly his name and ask him to speed up or slow down the movements of his penis. He has to see that you almost reached orgasm.

4. Make your sounds louder and movements faster and then “reach an orgasm”.

You have to move and make sounds all the time during sex, otherwise your partner will understand that you simulate the orgasm if you start moving in the end. That is why you have to show your boyfriend that you initially enjoy the sex. Plus, push your hips forward when you simulate the orgasm. You may like it and you will not simulate it any more.

5.  Muscle contractions

Muscle contractions are uncontrolled reflexes of our bodies, but you can simulate them by stringing the blanket, curving the back or straining your legs. End the orgasm with a shout, groan or call out his name. Your boyfriend has to see that you are in the seventh heaven.

6. You have to stop moving after this. You have to be quiet and relaxed. Breathe heavily. Your partner has to see that you are extremely tired. Normalize your respiration and give your boyfriend a hot kiss and lovely smile.

How to know the orgasm was real

You do not have to play the role, to cry and moan when you feel the real orgasm. Usually, people do not demonstrate that they had an orgasm, but you can understand this by the following things:

• Hurried respiration

• Loud sounds

• Passionate moves

• Muscle contractions

• Flushed face

• Body’s perspiring

Do not forget about these notes:

 • You have to think very well before simulating the orgasm. If you simulate the orgasm, your partner thinks that your sexual life is great and you do not need to change something in it. Besides, if you have a serious relationship, you will make worse by simulating the orgasm, because you lose the chance to experience the best pleasure in the world and make your  sex fantasies come true.

• Men can also simulate the orgasm, especially if they are wearing condoms.
• If you think that your partner is simulating the orgasm, do not hurry to attack her or him. It just means      that you have to talk about it and to try to make something for reaching the real orgasm.

7 Things to Avoid in Sex Life

If you have never had success with girls in bed and they left you after one night with you and never came back again, then you have to think about it. Here are 7 mistakes which men usually do in bed and because of them girls do not want to make sex with them again. And if you listen to our advice, your dream girl will be interested in you and will want to stay in bed with you all days long.

1. Don’t watch erotic movie when in bed

Even if you like erotic films and you think that they will teach you to be king in bed, it does not mean that your new girlfriend thinks the same and likes it. Especially girls do not like to be told that they have to act as porno actresses.

2. Don’t name your penis with any weird nicknames

Sometimes men like to give nicknames for their penises and if you are such kind of a man, never tell it to your girlfriend. She will not be happy to hear “It’s high time to meet the Big John!”. And she will never want to meet your “Big John” again.

3. Don’t tell anyone let that you just had sex

You should also notice that your intimate life has to be only yours. Never tell your friends that you just had a sex with hot girl and do not write about it in the internet. Girls do not like publicity and if she knows about it, you will never see her in your bed again. And not only her, but also other girls, who have read your tweet or have heard about it from their friends.

4. Don’t scary her away with weird fetishes

All of us have strange things which we like to do when we are alone. But it does not mean that you have to tell your new girlfriend about your secrets because you never know how she will react on it. There is a possibility that you will scary her away from you. You do not have to tell her about your masturbation or show her your favorite adult toys till you know her very well. You have to learn out her opinion about it first.

5. Don’t rate her body or love performance

Your lady could ask you to repeat making sex with her after the finished one and she will not be excited to her “Well, Hon, I give it a 5 (out of 100)”. Never give girl a mark, except if she has a higher mark. It is the same thing if you tell your beloved woman that she looks fat in her new dress. We hope you will follow our advice!

6. Don’t go to “in a relationship” in Facebook

Don’t hurry up the things and do not put status on the Facebook that you have a new girlfriend and you are in a relationship now after your first sex with her. A lot of girls will think that it is very cute and they will love you more after this, but there are also some girls who do not like such showing of love and they can quarrel with you because of this. You do not have to decide for her. You have to know her opinion about it at first.

7. Don’t compare her love making with your ex-lovers

The biggest mistake is to compare your new girlfriend with your ex-girlfriend. Only one word about your ex in bed will lead to 2 things: either she will give you the best sex which you have had in all your life or she will break up with you. So, listen to us and never make such a mistake as comparing your 2 girlfriends. 

Make your Sex Life better By Using a Mobile Phone

Our lives became easier and better with the help of mobile phones. You will always see at least one person talking on mobile phone, reading messages and doing other things anywhere. But not everyone knows that you can improve your sex life due to mobile phone. Are you interested to learn out more about it? We have prepared the following tips to help you to spice up your love life by using a mobile phone.

1. Don’t hurry up. If you have never written sexy messages to your partner, you can always write something nice like “Miss you much” and “I love you so much”. Then you can be flirtier and send him ““Guess what we will do tonight”. Later you can become more intriguing, like “Hurry Up, I am naked and waiting”. But do not be direct, your partner will lose all interest if you send him an image or detailed message.

2. Messages can be used as foreplay. For many women prelude does not begin in the bedroom, but much earlier. For instance, they can become excited when seeing their lovers washing the dishes. Thus, it will be great foreplay for you and for your partner to exchange with sexy messages while you are far away from each other. You can tell him what you want and what you will do with him when you see him in real life. You can become more excited from such messages than from real foreplay moves.

3. Start a sexy role play. Many people do not play role games since they think that this is immorality. They get confused if they start dirty talking or wear erotic lingerie when they are together. Start with sending your sexual thoughts and fantasies. Think which character you would like to play and prepare everything for a sexy role play. To your excitement, these sexy things will improve your love life.

Tips:

• Be careful when you send your sexy text message and choose the right number of your partner. Try to avoid such confused situations as sending dirty messages to the wrong person.
• Never send images or detailed messages, because your partner’s parents, colleagues or children, or even strangers (if mobile phone had been stolen), could accidentally see them.
• Also be aware of intimate messages if mobile phone or phone number belongs to the company your partner works for.
• You have to be sure when you can send him sexy messages. Don’t distract his attention if he is on a conference, in the car, or on a business meeting. He should not have problems because of your text messages.

20^th century is the century of development and text messages are the ones from its inventions. You can send them to any part of the world. They are helpful in any situations, including sex life. So, take faster your mobile phone and send your beloved one a sexy message!