Surprise Sex - 5 tips For Improving Sex Life

In the beginning of any relationship sex is always on the first place for both man and woman. They can make sex anywhere, it is their favorite occupation and they believe that their sex will always be wild, hot and passionate. But after some time the sex becomes habitual thing for the couple, they do not dream to make it all the time and it is a trivial thing for them. But sex is an important part not only of a relationship, but also of health and it is the best medicine from stress.

Sex becomes primitive when it repeats all the time in the same way without any changing. You have to do something for making your sex hot and passionate again. In this case, you can always turn to surprise sex and here are few advices for you.

1. Change your bed getup

Many things depend on the clothes in what you usually sleep in. If you like to sleep in t-shirt, pajama or underwear, buy sexy lingerie or underwear. Or if you like to wear dressing gown, go to sleep naked. No matter what you decided to go to bed naked or not, lay under the blanket first and when your boyfriend lays near with you, take your hand and put it on your body. He will be pleasantly surprised and excited.

2. Surprise him with a new position

If you have a long-term relationship, you have the same sex positions all the time. But you can change this, you just do not have to be afraid and try something new for surprising him. You can use reverse cowgirl position  (it is the same as cowgirl when you are on top, but you just have to face his legs and not chest). You will like it: he will admire your beautiful body and bends and if you do not like your belly, it will become your favorite position too.

3. Try dirty talking

You do not like to say something during sex? You do not have to be ashamed of it because it is normal thing. Not always dirty talking is hot. But if you want to surprise your man, you can say something light and pleasant, like "That is amazing" or for adding some passion, you can command him “Make me feel closer to the stars”.

4. Switch up your usual sex roles

Does he usually start cuddling? Now it is your time to give him “hints” that you want sex. You can start kissing him very passionately or take your clothes off very sexy and slowly. He will understand you right away. Do not be afraid to do it, spice up your sex life. But if it is you who always starts foreplay, make him do it first. Tell him something about sex or put yourself into his favorite sex position and he will understand your signals right away. Changing up your sex roles will add excitement to your sex life.

5. Play X-rated I never

It is the most favorite game among children where everyone shows their knowledge. But you can make a sexy version of this classic game and be the leader in it. But you can play it only if you know your partner’s sexual experience in the past. But not times of jealousy and shyness. If you are sexually open-mined, you will be immediately aroused and your sex will be as hot and passionate as it was in the beginning of your relationship.

Using Sex Toys during Pregnancy

If you have never used a sex toy in your sexual life, you can try using sex toys during pregnancy and we assure you that you will not regret about it. You will discover a whole lot of new enjoyable and pleasant sensations and feelings.

You will be pleasantly surprised when you decide to buy a sex toy and you will find out a lot of different sex accesories on the market. You do not have to be afraid to use the sex toy during the pregnancy if you do everything right.

You can use sex toys at any stage of pregnancy and the following tips will help you to receive the great pleasure from them. But if you have some doubts about toys or active sexual life, talk to your doctor about it.

First and Second Trimester

You have to remember some tips if you are allowed to have passionate sex and orgasm during pregnancy.

1. Keep Sex Toys Clean

If you do not want to have problems, you have  to take care of your sex toys all the time and keep them clean. You also have to use condom on any toy and change it every time when you share the toys with your partner. But it would be better to clean sex toys with special cleaners which you can buy in sex shops. There are also silicone toys which you can clean in boiling water and there will be no infection.

2. Practice Nipple Play

When you are pregnant your nipples are very perceptive, so do not use clamps because you will not get any pleasure, but only discomfort or even pain. But you can buy vibrating bullets which will not hurt you and can be used anywhere. They will bring you great pleasure.

3. Use Lubricants

You have physical changes when you are pregnant and these changes are vaginal tightening and vaginal dryness, so it would be more pleasant and better for you to use lubricants. Use a simple water-based lubricant if you have allergies on other lubes.

Third Trimester

If you do not have risk of premature birth and your doctor allowed you to have sexual activity on the last stages of your pregnancy, you can still have sex and use sex toys. But in case your doctor did not allow you to have sex or it was your own choice, you can have non-perceptive sex. Here are few advices which will help you to feel the pleasure during third trimester.

1. Mutual Masturbation

If you decided to have mutual masturbation, you can use sex toys for having more pleasure. You can use any toy, but only together with lube.

2. Anal Toys

If you are pregnant, it does not mean that you can not experiment with your sexual life. If you want to experience something new and exciting, you can try anal toys. It can bring you even more pleasure than simple sex. Do not be afraid to experiment and buy anal toys for the beginners.

You may like your sexual life being pregnant even more than earlier. So take a chance, experiment new things, add something exciting and enjoy active sexual life during your pregnancy.

How to Simulate Orgasm

It is not a secret that  most women simulate orgasm very often. There is no woman who never simulated the orgasm. This is a favorite subject for many discussions, articles, films and men’s journals. Every man talks about it, but he does not know that it is very painful theme for women because they do not have the orgasm, when they want to, due to the mistakes men make during sex. And men do not think that women simulate orgasm for them. They simply do not want to offend men, wanting their sweatheart feel like a king in the bed.

If you decided to hit the shaky road of orgasm simulation, you can follow our simple steps to make it look more natural:

1. You have to be relaxed if you want to imitate an orgasm. Relaxation helps you to feel pleasure from sex and maybe you won't need to simulate orgasm.

2. When your partner entered you, begin to move and make characteristic sounds so that he could see that you enjoy sex very much. You can push your hips forward to your partner, showing him that you like sex and help him bring pleasure to both of you.

3. Repeat softly his name and ask him to speed up or slow down the movements of his penis. He has to see that you almost reached orgasm.

4. Make your sounds louder and movements faster and then “reach an orgasm”.

You have to move and make sounds all the time during sex, otherwise your partner will understand that you simulate the orgasm if you start moving in the end. That is why you have to show your boyfriend that you initially enjoy the sex. Plus, push your hips forward when you simulate the orgasm. You may like it and you will not simulate it any more.

5.  Muscle contractions

Muscle contractions are uncontrolled reflexes of our bodies, but you can simulate them by stringing the blanket, curving the back or straining your legs. End the orgasm with a shout, groan or call out his name. Your boyfriend has to see that you are in the seventh heaven.

6. You have to stop moving after this. You have to be quiet and relaxed. Breathe heavily. Your partner has to see that you are extremely tired. Normalize your respiration and give your boyfriend a hot kiss and lovely smile.

How to know the orgasm was real

You do not have to play the role, to cry and moan when you feel the real orgasm. Usually, people do not demonstrate that they had an orgasm, but you can understand this by the following things:

• Hurried respiration

• Loud sounds

• Passionate moves

• Muscle contractions

• Flushed face

• Body’s perspiring

Do not forget about these notes:

 • You have to think very well before simulating the orgasm. If you simulate the orgasm, your partner thinks that your sexual life is great and you do not need to change something in it. Besides, if you have a serious relationship, you will make worse by simulating the orgasm, because you lose the chance to experience the best pleasure in the world and make your  sex fantasies come true.

• Men can also simulate the orgasm, especially if they are wearing condoms.
• If you think that your partner is simulating the orgasm, do not hurry to attack her or him. It just means      that you have to talk about it and to try to make something for reaching the real orgasm.

7 Things to Avoid in Sex Life

If you have never had success with girls in bed and they left you after one night with you and never came back again, then you have to think about it. Here are 7 mistakes which men usually do in bed and because of them girls do not want to make sex with them again. And if you listen to our advice, your dream girl will be interested in you and will want to stay in bed with you all days long.

1. Don’t watch erotic movie when in bed

Even if you like erotic films and you think that they will teach you to be king in bed, it does not mean that your new girlfriend thinks the same and likes it. Especially girls do not like to be told that they have to act as porno actresses.

2. Don’t name your penis with any weird nicknames

Sometimes men like to give nicknames for their penises and if you are such kind of a man, never tell it to your girlfriend. She will not be happy to hear “It’s high time to meet the Big John!”. And she will never want to meet your “Big John” again.

3. Don’t tell anyone let that you just had sex

You should also notice that your intimate life has to be only yours. Never tell your friends that you just had a sex with hot girl and do not write about it in the internet. Girls do not like publicity and if she knows about it, you will never see her in your bed again. And not only her, but also other girls, who have read your tweet or have heard about it from their friends.

4. Don’t scary her away with weird fetishes

All of us have strange things which we like to do when we are alone. But it does not mean that you have to tell your new girlfriend about your secrets because you never know how she will react on it. There is a possibility that you will scary her away from you. You do not have to tell her about your masturbation or show her your favorite adult toys till you know her very well. You have to learn out her opinion about it first.

5. Don’t rate her body or love performance

Your lady could ask you to repeat making sex with her after the finished one and she will not be excited to her “Well, Hon, I give it a 5 (out of 100)”. Never give girl a mark, except if she has a higher mark. It is the same thing if you tell your beloved woman that she looks fat in her new dress. We hope you will follow our advice!

6. Don’t go to “in a relationship” in Facebook

Don’t hurry up the things and do not put status on the Facebook that you have a new girlfriend and you are in a relationship now after your first sex with her. A lot of girls will think that it is very cute and they will love you more after this, but there are also some girls who do not like such showing of love and they can quarrel with you because of this. You do not have to decide for her. You have to know her opinion about it at first.

7. Don’t compare her love making with your ex-lovers

The biggest mistake is to compare your new girlfriend with your ex-girlfriend. Only one word about your ex in bed will lead to 2 things: either she will give you the best sex which you have had in all your life or she will break up with you. So, listen to us and never make such a mistake as comparing your 2 girlfriends. 

Make your Sex Life better By Using a Mobile Phone

Our lives became easier and better with the help of mobile phones. You will always see at least one person talking on mobile phone, reading messages and doing other things anywhere. But not everyone knows that you can improve your sex life due to mobile phone. Are you interested to learn out more about it? We have prepared the following tips to help you to spice up your love life by using a mobile phone.

1. Don’t hurry up. If you have never written sexy messages to your partner, you can always write something nice like “Miss you much” and “I love you so much”. Then you can be flirtier and send him ““Guess what we will do tonight”. Later you can become more intriguing, like “Hurry Up, I am naked and waiting”. But do not be direct, your partner will lose all interest if you send him an image or detailed message.

2. Messages can be used as foreplay. For many women prelude does not begin in the bedroom, but much earlier. For instance, they can become excited when seeing their lovers washing the dishes. Thus, it will be great foreplay for you and for your partner to exchange with sexy messages while you are far away from each other. You can tell him what you want and what you will do with him when you see him in real life. You can become more excited from such messages than from real foreplay moves.

3. Start a sexy role play. Many people do not play role games since they think that this is immorality. They get confused if they start dirty talking or wear erotic lingerie when they are together. Start with sending your sexual thoughts and fantasies. Think which character you would like to play and prepare everything for a sexy role play. To your excitement, these sexy things will improve your love life.

Tips:

• Be careful when you send your sexy text message and choose the right number of your partner. Try to avoid such confused situations as sending dirty messages to the wrong person.
• Never send images or detailed messages, because your partner’s parents, colleagues or children, or even strangers (if mobile phone had been stolen), could accidentally see them.
• Also be aware of intimate messages if mobile phone or phone number belongs to the company your partner works for.
• You have to be sure when you can send him sexy messages. Don’t distract his attention if he is on a conference, in the car, or on a business meeting. He should not have problems because of your text messages.

20^th century is the century of development and text messages are the ones from its inventions. You can send them to any part of the world. They are helpful in any situations, including sex life. So, take faster your mobile phone and send your beloved one a sexy message!

Orgasm from whip

In his book "Juliette or Enlightenment and Morality" Marquis de Sade narrates about sexual adventures of two girls - slaves in society, when a man whips one of her, while the second one is making him a sensuous blowjob. Such play was one of the favorite sexual funs of the marquis.
Afterwards such kind of sexual delight associated with dominaton and implicit obedience of the partner was called in honor of its prophet Marquis de Sade. Strictly speaking sadism as a special form of communication with person, which is expressed in domination over him, is a kind of phenomenon, accompanying humanity at every stages of his life.
The first salons for sadomasochists appeared in XVIII century. The clients were men who wished to experience intimacy together with pleasures from birches and tortures. As we all know, appetite comes with eating. A century later sexual appetites of BDSM lovers become more sophisticated.
Collars, leather clothes, handcuffs and other BDSM sex toys? According to the majority of psychologists, every person has his own sexual fetish. And, sometimes we probably should think of our fetish, where it came from and how to make your sex life more thrilling with the help of such fetish. Check out our collection of wrist and ankle cuffs. The main principle of such sex games is to take everything under control without crippling.
Tickling. Every person will get the ruse of such method, recalling the fact that almost everybody is ticklish. Do it gently, touching the body with special ticklers which you can also purchase at our online store: feather and furry ticklers of different sizes and colors. It can be very exciting for you both.
Choose your strategy, but don't forget to discuss it with your partner, as one man's meat is another man's poison!

The language of sex

It's rather difficult to learn to speak about sex. Many known words, relating to sex, are also used as abuse or offensive. You can feel ill at ease speaking such words to your beloved person. Besides, such words as penis, vagina, vulvar lips, testicles, sex toys sound rather medically and there are not so cute or romantic. That's why many couples find their own way of communication, creating their own language. It becomes a mystery, which you both share with each other, and the atmosphere of closeness in sexual relationships is created. It used to be funny sometimes.
It's not easy to carry on any kind of conversations before, after and during sex. The problem is in following: we don't like to walk a tightrope or fooling around. We don't want to judge the situation. We don't want to confront and we are also not going to upset our partners, making them feel deeply offended. So, we need our skills to communicate. And it always means that we know our partners well. Contrary to established opinion, we can't use cliche because it is not formed in our mind automatically by itself. It means, that we should learn to communicate, making all the efforts and time for this.
It's always easy to begin the conversation about sex with a new partner, rather than the person whom you have long-term relationships with. If you decided to move your sexual relationships up to the new level, the best way is to get down in neutral atmosphere, when you and your partner relax. Let us say, after dinner and a glass of wine. The first successful step on the way to the realization of your idea is your decision to begin a conversation. You may begin with the idea that it's hard for you to speak on "these" topics. Something like:"I always feel embarrassed, when I need to speak about sex. But our relationships mean much to me. I would like to speak to you about it. Do you mind?" In such a way you can explore the ground and make sure that your partner is open to such conversation.
If you can't, leave it to the Talking Vibrator which comes with a real man's voice. Quibbling won't spoil the situation, because a good sense of humor should be one of the integral parts of the relationships.